Husband frustrations

I just don't know what to do anymore, no matter what i say or do it makes my husband upset like at this point i just feel like there's nothing that will make him happy. One of the most reacurring things right now is the fact that i just can't get myself to want to have sex, and it's not that i don't love him i just have a lot to deal with not only with my 16 mo son who is constantly up my ass but also my really poor mental and physical health... i do the dishes, clean up after everyone (including my husband) i change my son's diaper, feed everyone, make sure there's food in the house at all times, i do the laundry i clean the bathrooms and really just about everywhere, i make the appointments so on so on and I'm still expected to just have sex whenever he wants it... I'm exhausted, I'm self conscious, I'm mentally and physically not well and no matter what i tell him or what i say it's always a problem. I have always been asexual, when i say always, i mean ALWAYS and he knew that going into the relationship and marriage so why is it NOW an issue?? And i still can't even talk to him about it because he's the victim he's the one "being deprived of sex with his wife" but he won't even listen to what i have to say... I'm not comfortable just spreading my fucking legs whenever HE has had a bad day because when I have a bad day i "don't" apparently. Literally just kill me, I'm so fucking done with this... anyone give me some advice because i really fucking need it.

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anonymous Relationships December 10, 2025 at 12:13 am 0 0