Hey man! Every person in this world has a purpose. That’s not a perception, it’s facts. The meaning of life can be tricky, so many people have different opinions. But if a star, randomly placed in the sky that has no soul, is studied and followed by scientists who are absolutely in awe of its beauty, remains, what makes you think that you, as a human being with abilities and breath, means less? I have never dated. I still have my family. I love them and they love me. I’ve never had friends. I have pets that love me. I’ve discovered a few of my hobbies and passions. I have a few talents that aren’t great and they need some work but they’re there. Your situation may be the total opposite, but you and I are still both humans on the same earth. I used to be so depressed about being alone forever, doubting myself and what I could ever accomplish. But I am truly happy on this day and if I can achieve this, you can! Do not worry about a single thought any other person has. This is going to take practice and it won’t be easy but you can get there. Think if there is an afterlife and it’s terrible, it is going to be ten times worse than the life you have now. What’s the point of taking swapping something bad for something worse? It would be like swapping a small virus for cancer. You can choose what you become. It’s spoken a lot but it’s true. Find what you enjoy, not what you’re good at, and do that. So what if others think it’s a waste or it’s not good? They are all going to die one day too. They’re flesh and blood too and are no better than you. Whatever you do, even if you fail and I never hear about it, I’ll still be rooting for you. I don’t want you to give up. I have to go now, but don’t ever hate yourself. I don’t hate you. I don’t know you but you have one friend if no one else will be it. I care about you, truly, and I want you to take care of yourself, because “the only person who can truly understand you and take care of you is… you. Yourself. So you must take care of yourself.” Love you.

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itsgoingtobeokay 3 years ago

find things to love, go out and make friends. i feel similarly, it feels like i’m missing some key part of me that everyone else has. i don’t feel like i have passions. what helps me is just loving the world, i guess. service to others. i work 2 service oriented jobs that help me to feel a little bit more fulfilled, i talk to anyone and everyone that i can. find power in the soft things.

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via 3 years ago