Neurotic sister driving me crazy

Living only a few minutes from one of my sister's can suck. She's a neurotic worrywort about everything and anything house-related, and, if I have to hear one more time about "when I go to sell this house" as I have for 2 years now, I'm going to freak out on her. Every little thing that happens, even normal things like a spot on the carpet to a chip in the deck railing paint or neighbors cutting trees results in "What's that going to do to me when I go to sell this house?".And I mean..Everything.

Yesterday, it was a stressed-out call about a "sinkhole" alongside her yard. I've done property damage claims and know..What she has is likely a gopher hole, not sinkhole. Two phone calls and about nine texts about this, so, I have to go over today and look at it, just to tell her..It's a fkn gopher hole, why are you wasting my time? Which brings me to my second point: My time seems to be worth nothing to her, notably in nice weather, when I like to hike local trails or otherwise get outside for some me time. Something always comes up, can you do me a favor and this and that.

Forget any respect or like for my gf..She's flat-out side she doesn't talk about her b/c doesn't like her, thinks certain things about her, and, twice, said "Don't bring her to my house", which I haven't. I get tired of dealing with her nerves, criticalness of others, and in-general stress. I'm not a ready-made handyman, free claims guy when you think something happened, I do have a life and gf, and would much prefer that my time be respected and not used as your own.

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anonymous Relationships November 25, 2018 at 7:42 am 0 0