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So I'm relatively young but I've been trying to determine my sexuality. Now I'm 80% sure of what I am, but I don't wanna say anything too soon because I've never dated anyone before or whatever (and I'm not in a rush to). I never really was able to put myself in the shoes of people who were scared to tell their friends but now that I realized who I am I am a bit scared of telling my friends. I don't think I really want to. I already told my best friend, who's mostly the only one I talk to (we're super close and she's very supportive of the LGBTQ+ community but I still feel like she's going to judge me). I think I'll just say I'm straight for now (I'm heteroflexible, which means you're mostly attracted to the opposite sex but are sometimes attracted to the same sex) especially since I'm not fully sure yet.Mei Relationships February 25, 2021 at 12:15 pm 0 0
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sexuality isn't something that can be determined within a few seconds. u need time, and a lot of it to decide what u are. its normal for people to question their sexuality, but best of luck to you when you find out what it is.
anonymous 5 years ago
anonymous 5 years ago
Yes, ofc. I've been debating with myself over it for a very long time and I'm trying to be honest with my feelings and experimenting but it's still very confusing. It's even harder because I have slightly homophobic parents, and I've been raised seeing and watching straight relationships on television and social media. Now that I'm more mature and exploring, I see tons of different relationships and so yeah I'm trying to find what I like :)
Mei 5 years ago
Mei 5 years ago
"I'm heteroflexible"
Why do people make up all of these stupid fucking words to describe their sexuality? "I'm attracted to both genders but not enough to make me bisexual. I tend more toward the opposite sex but there are some members of the same gender that I find myself sexually attracted to. I am heteroflexible." What's with all the fucking hairsplitting? Do people really need to define their sexuality with such minutiae?
I met a guy in a bar once, he was the lover of a friend of a friend, and he said, "I'm not heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual; I'm just sexual." I heard a guy at work say once, "I'm trisexual; I'll try anything."
Want my honest opinion? My honest opinion is that all you whackjobs can kiss my fucking ass.
anonymous 5 years ago
Why do people make up all of these stupid fucking words to describe their sexuality? "I'm attracted to both genders but not enough to make me bisexual. I tend more toward the opposite sex but there are some members of the same gender that I find myself sexually attracted to. I am heteroflexible." What's with all the fucking hairsplitting? Do people really need to define their sexuality with such minutiae?
I met a guy in a bar once, he was the lover of a friend of a friend, and he said, "I'm not heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual; I'm just sexual." I heard a guy at work say once, "I'm trisexual; I'll try anything."
Want my honest opinion? My honest opinion is that all you whackjobs can kiss my fucking ass.
anonymous 5 years ago
Um what? Thats a bit toxic, those words describe someones sexuality and sexuality can really vary so maybe THAT'S why there's so many words for different sexualities.
anonymous 5 years ago
anonymous 5 years ago
"Thats a bit toxic, those words describe someones sexuality and sexuality can really vary so maybe THAT'S why there's so many words for different sexualities."
What I wrote is not toxic at all. There's way too much hairsplitting going on and it's all coming from people that advocate that a person's sexuality is a personal matter. What gives? There's nothing more absurd than having to listen to someone define human sexuality by a million and one different terms only to conclude by saying that it's no one's business anyway.
anonymous 5 years ago
What I wrote is not toxic at all. There's way too much hairsplitting going on and it's all coming from people that advocate that a person's sexuality is a personal matter. What gives? There's nothing more absurd than having to listen to someone define human sexuality by a million and one different terms only to conclude by saying that it's no one's business anyway.
anonymous 5 years ago
I mean you're right I'm not sure why people make such a big deal about it, both coming out people who freak out about LGBTQ+ people. I mean it's not that specific, I'm just attracted to both genders but I tend to swing on one side more. Your sexuality shouldn't be a big deal, it's just who you like. Hey, you still up for that offer for me to kiss your ass, hehe?
Mei 5 years ago
Mei 5 years ago
In my opinion, I totally and fully support the LGBTQ+ community, but I agree, they make it a very big part of their personality, which can be overwhelming. I guess it's just because being a different sexuality from straight is "different" and people think it's that big of a deal.
anonymous 5 years ago
anonymous 5 years ago
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