WTFFFF

So I had liked this guy and we had kissed once before (he kissed me). We even would sext at times so he would tell me how much he wanted me and stuff like that. At the same time he would say how we would just be friends so although he made that clear, it was very confusing because why would he just be flirty and send me certain pics if he wasn't interested (probs looking for a hookup but still)

AND THEN I found out at the same time he was talking to some other girl and how he wanted to be in a relationship with her but she wasn't ready for a relationship and I'm like WTFFFF because why is he talking to someone else but sexting me and saying all this stuff??? Like I feel bad for her because she's probably blindsided as to how shitty he actually is and even though he is single, it gives him no right to play with at least MY feelings like that let alone others...

Here's the other thing, he would tell me ALL the time before that he could talk to multiple people because he is single, but when he was also talking to another girl (during the time we kissed) SHE told me that he got mad that she was talking to other men... And we didn't know he was messing with both of us at the same time until we even talked. So it just feels like he is kind of doing the same thing again.

The cherry on top of it is how he told me before he likes to manipulate people and I didn't think it would happen to me. He would tell me how I am easy to manipulate and he would gaslight me ALL the time. Like if I called him out on his actions, he would say I am crazy or basically like I deserve it (he would try to justify his actions) and WOULD NEVER APOLOGIZE. It just makes me so mad because I spent months dealing with him and at this point I am just grossed out by everything. I can't even trust him and he definitely plays as a good person but I beg to differ with how much I know at this point. At first I didn't understand why girls ghosted him until now...

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anonymous Crushes February 15, 2024 at 8:22 am 0 0