Marriage

My husband wants me to talk to his mother daily, he can shout whenever he panics or loses control.
His sister calls their parents (my in- laws) whenever she wants at her place. Her husband is supporting. They don't call her husband's parents home...refuse their medical treatment and my in laws support.
But my in laws will go as and when they like to her place.
The same courtesy is not extended to my parents.
My husband openly refuses my parents to come to our home on special occasions like anniversary, new year, etc
But we go to his sister's place to celebrate new year, Raksha Bandhan whenever we can travel with my in laws there
But my sister's in laws will not be invited.
If my parents propose to join they will be refused.
Then my mother in law will ask me to call my father to come and pick me and up...as in take a flight to this town ..pick me up ...book a flight and return to visit my home.
So that they can save on their son's money
For every ritual my parents are asked to give gifts to my on laws and us ...
It has been a year...but somehow the trend continues...
Now a baby is arriving and the expectation is to give gifts to all of them, their son, new born again
My parents give me jewellery and my mother in law wants to keep it safe with her because I am not capable of handling my own stuff
My husband supports saying mother in law's like to keep control.
But their daughters will keep their jewellery with them or with their biological parents
Why this hypocrisy

---

Tulip Relationships July 23, 2025 at 9:27 pm 0 0