Women are snobs at work!

I can't stand how the females at work spend their time with their faces practically glued to their phones in every break in the break room, or go sit in their car with the windows up, doors locked with music blaring, or watching a video or making calls! They are SO rude to me, and some of the other guys who works there! All of them think they are too good to have a conversation with us unless it is while we are working together and directly related to our job! They will smile and be nice while on the clock, but the second it is break, lunch, or they are packing up to leave, they won't even look at me! I will try to chat them up, ask about their day, smile at them, see what they are listening or watching, and they just will glance up and act annoyed, and take out their buds and just give me this look like I am interrupting their entire life by simply trying to make small talk and get to know them! Then they will say, "What....I didn't hear you?" and when I repeat myself, I get some short, abrupt response, and then they crawl back into their phone and ignore me, or get up and leave!

It makes NO sense, because these bitches are all single chicks, and I am a single man...but they won't even give me the light of day or a chance to try and be friendly, get to a point they feel comfortable, or even suggest maybe we have lunch together, go get a drink or coffee after work, maybe if we have similar interests we could talk about that? Go see a movie we both like? They don't do SHIT, but act stuck-up, and better than me! I have tried to go talk to them while they were in their cars, and tap on their window, jokingly asking what they are doing out there, offering them company since ya know, they are ALONE, so...why wouldn't they want to have someone to talk to on break? I don't understand how they just want to sit alone in their car??? Or just hunch over a chair on the table on their break instead of have conversation with someone of the opposite sex is a trying to be nice!!

I am not a bad guy, I am a NICE guy and I just want to get to know them and see where things go! Women are supposed to DESIRE men and want to get to know men, I thought! but the more I am around women, the more I realize what other dudes mean when they say that feminism and all this equality stuff has RUINED women! It made them think they are just soooo much better then men, and we are never enough for them, and never could live up their lofty standards!

If I was tall, built, muscular, super handsome, drove a nice car, dressed better, had money....they'd be all over me, but because I am not, they act like I don't exist----and even worse than that, treat me garbage and make me feel inferior and stupid compared to them! Women are SHALLOW AF! And most of these broads aren't even ALL that , they are cute....yeah, but they aren't drop dead gorgeous, they aren't super models, they are just average looking girls, but I am willing to give them a chance, because that is how life is! And they are okay still, or so I thought! but now that I see what SNOBS and cunts they can be, all I see is FAT and ugly out of most of them!

I can't deal with the , "I don't need no man!" mentality anymore! What happened to women that they decided to hate men for no reason? It makes no sense, not even on a nature level! They are SUPPOSED to like attention from men, it used to be something that women WAITED on. Our mothers and grandmothers HOPED every day a nice guy would come up to them, and ask them out and pay attention to them, dot all over them, but now these women are nasty, hateful, bitter, and shrewish towards men! The looks these bitches give me sometimes...damn, I am glad looks don't kill, because I'd be dead! The snarling expression, and half roll of an eye, the heavy sigh like a seething bull, the lowered eyebrow at me, even if I just ask a simple ice breaker question! I can ask "What are your lunch plans?" or "What are you eating?" and they just GLARE or give me some snippy answer!

The two times I came to the car windows of a couple of them they barely rolled it down, and just starred at me, when I asked what they were doing they said, "Just making personal calls...do you need something?" or "What's up, I am trying to call someone in a bit..." DAMN! When I said I was coming out, and would sit with them on break, and to unlock the door, they said refused and said, "No, I have to do some stuff" and one told, "No, I am not working or on the clock, so just trying to relax!"
Then she rolled up her fucking window...and I just stood there starring at her in disbelief! I couldn't believe HOW RUDE she was!!! I told her later that it REALLY was harsh of her to talk to me like that, and I was just coming out so she didn't have to sit there alone, and she shook her head and said, "I don't need you to come hang out with me." then refused to even look at me the rest of the shift unless she had to tell me something about a customer, and that was all blunt and short too!

I asked her how she is ever going to meet a man, and get married someday if she shuts every guy out of her life who tries to start something with her, and she again shook her head and said, "You don't fucking get anything dude..." and again, ignored me!

I then went to my manager (also a woman) and complained about how I was being treated by the women on our shift, and she told me that they are not required to socialize on their break, and she can't make them have lunch with me or take breaks with me, and can't make them let me in their cars. I told her that makes NO sense because they STILL need to be respectful to their fellow coworker, and they need to be socialize while they are work! Our entire job is customer service and being social! She then told me if I don't leave them alone, I am going to be the one being written up, or even more, because she's had multiple complaints about harassment against me and has "witnessed it" herself!

How am I harassing them??? I said nothing sexual at all, I never touched them. I am just trying to get them to use our breaks to TALK to me and acknowledge that I am there!

It is creating a hostile work environment and I feel like I am being shoved out and cast aside because I am a man on shift with mostly other women! I feel like I need to contact the employee HR line and say that I am being singled out and excluded, and it is causing me extreme amounts of anxiety, and distress, and I feel humiliated and undervalued!

Why do you females have to be this way???? Why can't be more like your mothers generation, or your grandmother's, and realize that MEN are people too, and WE matter just as much as you?? Why can't be NICE to us and give us the time of day????

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Kyle Work February 06, 2026 at 6:31 pm 0 1