why do my own friends pmo SO bad..

WARNING: bad grammar

i really dont get how people only see ONE side of the story and i never will! the other day my two friends made a groupchat to talk about some stupid ass glitch going on, because I APPARENTLY unadded my friend on a platform? n they kept accusing me of lying like bro no i did not. I wasn't gonna start a whole ass argument on a misunderstanding or like any convo at all, because it was useless right? so I just stated that it was a glitch and then went offline again. my notifications were on and guess what!! one of them (N) started typing something like "of course you leave when you get accused," like hello?? i didn't have any proof to prove myself so it would eventually turn on me, and it was pointless.. anyways i left and then kept thinking about it because I had school the next day and they LITERALLY go to my school, so I eventually decided to just clear things up. (spoiler, it did NOT go as planned.) the texts went like this:

"im done arguing ab some glitch so i SWEAR i did not unadd u so i figured u did it and i didn't send one to u again because i assumed you had a reason after all that happened (argument) n didn't wanna deal w my bs anymore and like some ppl dont like to talk ab problems after it passes
you can still believe i unfriended u cause i have like absolutely no proof i didnt but like mb
n this misunderstanding was eating me alive"

after that he started questioning me again for some reason, so i responded to the best of my ability. but this arrogantassbitch was being SO sarcastic, like what's the point of asking if you're not going to believe me? then he proceeded to reply to the part where I mentioned it was eating me alive with this: "yeah it really didn't seem to bother you until i brought it up" like no N... not everyone is obvious and stressing out about their inner thoughts... why are we assuming things based on how people look or act? another thing was that after I finished explaining all he was "oh" OH? here I am trying to fix whatever friendship you fucked up and yet I feel like i'm talking to a wall. and the entire time this whole thing dragged on for he was being a COMPLETE asshole!! I was honestly trying to be nice and act normal but eventually gave up. I mentioned it in the groupchat that i left (mentioned earlier) and he said "that's actually crazy coming from u" like bro at least i TRIED to be nice? I wasn't acting like a complete asshole. then he stated that he was only ever soft and nice to me when we were closer before, like FUCKK no. you always act the same, even if you don't realize it. nothing will ever change, N. I genuinely don't wanna talk ab him ever again.

again i'm really sorry for the bad grammar.. I can write properly I swear.

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tori Friends January 10, 2026 at 2:34 am 0 0