Secretly in love with my best friend?

Oh my god okay I’m a third year in university. Thought I was like a lesbian but then realized I was definitely also attracted to men, but past bad experiences with men threw me off. Now I have a great guy best friend, who I love dearly, like we’ve been hanging out all the time since our first year in university. He calls me almost every night, and we always see each other. THING IS he jus started dating someone else again, now we’ve been friends while in relationships before, but when we both got single around the same time, I realized I really enjoyed his company..then got like sad and hurt when he started dating someone new. Now the person he is dating is great, and so chill, and we all hang out lots, but like..I’m starting to realize I like this guy more than just as a friend. I want him to be happy though so I won’t say anything, because I know he’s happy with the other person, I do feel bummed out though and now I have no interest in dating other people because I know realize I want those other people to be him. AAAAHHHHH I hate this so much

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Aaaaaaaaah Crushes February 04, 2026 at 12:36 am 0 0