Most of my life, I've been disappointed in my brother. He had poor grades, dropped out of school, had anger issues, extremely socially awkward etc. We've tried to talk with him about things but has adamantly stated he never wants to talk about his problems with us. Once we turned adults it took him years before we told him he needs to find a job or we'd kick him out. He got into vtubers and eventually I saw his discord where it showed he decided to be a vtuber too. Even though I'm neutral to the subject, I really hate that he decided to try it out. He still has anger issues, but now he's just incredibly loud too, and demands we don't even knock on his door to get his attention. Our father does all the work on his car, and lately he's startes not wearing his shirt around the house for some reason. His physique is disgusting, hes several hundreds of pounds, and now lets his fat rolls jiggle free in front of everyone. He get's automatically pissed off whenever discussing politics, since our parents are republic leaning, and I'm down the middle. He has very democratic views and disregards reasoning, and I just know those views came from online influence, such as his friends. One of his "friends" lives is a far off country and has medical issues. He has been sending her money without even knowing this friend's name or face. He sent her so much money, in fact, that he asked our father, through, text if they could lower HIS rent. They obviously declined. I always thought he had some sort of mental issues but we can't bring anything up to him without exoecting him to lose it, and our mother is too soft on him, so she would hate if he did anything rash. The nail in the coffin that bothers me the most is that I recently checked his discord again, and his bio now shows "genderfluid, born as a man." I just don't get it. Changing your gender or however the hell that works isn't going to fix all your problems. Suddenly deciding you're one gender or the other doesn't change the fact that you're undateable. You are a massive emotionally damaged glob of meat taking up space and sound in our house. You are an embarassment to all of us and there is no more hope for you. You might die soon, whether it be from emotional distress, or obesity, but you never came to us for help. You went to your terminally online friends that force you to walk on eggshells just to have a normal conversation due to this hyperextreme cancel culture. I am already mourning for you. My brother is already dead. What lives in the room next to me is nothing but a husk, a black hole endlessly draining both food and happiness from our family.
anonymousHome November 04, 2025 at 12:11 am00
He might be some sort of hikikomori. There could also be some sort of deeper mental health issues going on here. It is difficult to exactly tell what it is but he might have some sort of personality disorder such as Depression, BPD or Bipolar Disorder. Of course, I am not a doctor so I wouldn’t know. But it would be best if he got checked on professional. Anon 3 hours ago
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Anon 3 hours ago