I may have said the wrong thing...

I have a friends from college time. I can say that we're pretty close. Though we lost contact for pretty long.
But then we get closer again.
Then we are to take a Japanese Provicientcy Test together. So we take some lessons together. It went okay. But at the end, her tablet broke down.
And doesn't get in to the lesson. I suggest that maybe she can just use her laptop and phone. And she can't just give up because her tablet broke down.
But her reaction? "Why are you mad suddenly?" I'm not mad? But after that we barely contact each other anymore. I don't know. Am I really saying the wrong thing..?
Then I remember she's told me that she cut off contact with one of her friend from her college circle. Oh, they also often play a game together. Then, she got a crush. So she start inviting her crush to play with her and her friends. To the point she never played with just her circle.
But then, when her friend ask her if sometimes they can play together with just them. Without her crush. But she didn't like it. And start to ignore her friend. Even her friend already apologize if she say something wrong. But she still didn't accept it.

After remembering that, I realize. My situations pretty similar. Slowly no text back. I'm a little worried too about her, her parents didn't care when she says that a had leakage. I'm worried that she never text me back because of the gas explode... or if there's suddenly a news about their apartement explodes.

After a few days, she answered. I also already apologize if I say something wrong to her. When I say something like, did something happen? She just answers that she has a family problem. And after just 2 or 3 days, I never got a reply anymore. Until today. (It's been 3 or 4 months). I don't even care anymore today. It's tiring.

Well, after saying happy Chinese New Year this year, hoping that everything she chose will go smoothly. I'll cut her off too.
If she still like that. If she doesn't.. I'll try it again.

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anonymous Friends February 09, 2026 at 2:05 am 0 0