i dont care about her breakup anymore

I am being so dead serious. My best friend A had been in a relationship for almost a month with this guy S. and about a month or two ago he broke up with her.
FIRST OF ALL, they were dating for less than a month, sure you can form attachments harsh in that span of time but COME ONNNN
Second of all, hes been an absolute bum for the ENTIRETY of their relationship, and the entirety of his (S) school year. He has over 60% of his assignments missing, he never goes to classes, he is an alcoholic and a drug user. im so serious when i say i warned her. I WARNED HER. and i get love does weird things but how can someone think THAT is sooo attractive "OH! i love alcoholics junkies and bums!" said no one ever.
When they broke up she was heartbroken, of course. that is almost two months ago. SHES BEEN GREIVING LONGER THAN THEY WERE TOGETHER. and at first i got it, he was her first everything and i understand being sad. but she still cannot eat, she wont shut up about him and now she wants to HELP HIM??? honey he is not yours to save. im going insane, we have an exam coming up and shes ruining my chances of good grades. we got a topic together which means i have to babysit her WHILE having to write the synopsis for the 3 subjects. i am tired, but i dont want to be a bad friend. Im so tired.
i get heartbreak is hard, and i havent really been there but come on, it was less than a month, shes been greiving for LONGER THAN THEY WERE TOGETHER.

i hate them and i love her. but i cannot do this anymore

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Lily Friends December 11, 2025 at 3:30 am 1 0