Friend

So pretty much me and one of my friends in like 7th or 8th grade were really close, and during this time I didn't have a lot of friends due to the fact I was energetic and nerdy, so I didn't have a lot of people to hang out with. So me, him, and another kid, hung out with each other almost the entire school year due to us not having a lot of friends but the other kid moved away and I lost contact with him so I pretty much one had one friend at the point but at the end of that year he told me and a few of his friends that he was going home school due to him testing on a higher level and being accepted into an online school. I got his phone number and added him on a social media site he did have due to the fact he didn't really use social media. He didn't move and go home school up until midway through freshman year. I, at this point, didn't have anybody in real life to call my friend because people found me annoying, loud, and weird so I pretty much during the weekend would go to his house and hang out. But as it turned out he found me annoying and he slowly started to talk to me less and I didn't realize I was bothering him and annoying. This was going on until he decided to unadd me on the only social platform where I could speak with him because as he claimed that his little brother had destroyed his phone. I didn't realize he had unadded me until I decided to message him about giving him something. I realized I had been unadded and went to one of his friends who I had added but wasn't close to why he unadded me and he told me that he unadded me due to the fact he thought I was weird and annoying. At that point I was so shocked and upset that I just sat there and stared at the message. I tried adding him back that night but turns out not only did he unadd me but he also unblocked me. I'm sad and stuff but I move on and life goes on. Well like 20 minutes I was cleaning up my social media and was checking people who I had blocked and I saw him. I decided to check out his page to see if he posted anything but the only way I could see his profile was to unblock him and while doing that I accidently pressed the friend button and he accepted. This was over a year ago and I haven't spoken to him and I just can't think if I should message him and see how he is or if I should just leave it alone and not even try to reconnect with him. I truly do wanna know what he has been up to and how his life is going but the fact that he decided to cut me off and then not even care enough to message me about why he didn't wanna have me added hurt. I just don't know what to do because of everything that went down the way that it did.

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Paul Friends March 08, 2026 at 10:51 pm 1 0