She has always been the type that would gladly throw her least favorite kid under the bus for whatever benefit and then still get mad at you for embarrassing her.
She plays favorites with her kids and if she favored you, she like will like your kids. If she doesn’t like you, prepare to have your kids abused if you leave them under her care.
And the craziest part is that everyone babies her. She gets away with everything because everyone in the family feels bad for her. People told me as an adult I would understand, but I’m past the age she me and no, I don’t understand. I would never ever in my life do or say half the shit she has done. As an adult, I tried to imagine doing half the shit she did when she was my age and it’s fucking crazy how immature, irresponsible, and just stupid she looks me. Everyone acts like she was a child when she had me and did all the stupid she did when I was young. She wasn’t a teen mom and she wasn’t even in her early twenties so it’s like she was young either.
She made her choices at her fully grown age and for some reason everyone treats her like a baby and coddles everything she does, but is hard on me, the person who actually used to be the child at some point.
Anyway, last year, my dad passed away and my mom used his death as an excuse to renovate the house and move downstairs. She said she was going to be renting the top half of the house. She moved down into the room beside mine (formerly my brothers but he moved out) before she even got any permit to start renting and then never followed through with it. Turns out she just wanted to be physically closer to me so that she can keep an eye on me (her words, not money). This is the same woman who would read the letters my friends sent me when we were kids and would get mad at me if they said something she didn’t like. This is the same woman who read any journal I ever kept. This is the same woman who openly & proudly admitted that she liked to listen in on any phone conversations I had. This is the same woman who I would open my bedroom door and catch her in the literal pose of pressing her ear against my door and when I would say “what the hell are you doing”, she would have the audacity to get mad at me for stopping her.
AND this is the same woman who wouldn’t let me out of the house unless it was for school and would be waiting outside for me. She would time how long I take to walk to the car and would get mad if I took any longer than the usual time. What was the rush? She just wanted me back inside the house. This type of shit cost me lots of friendships as a kid because no one could believe my mom was actually this strict.
AND THEN, this is the same woman who wanted to divorce my dad but they used the kids as an excuse to stay together and her last words to my dad were “shut up” before my dad died. She also took her time (a total of 5 minutes) before she opened the door for the EMTs when my dad dying. What was she doing? She was watching TikTok’s on her phone, then went to the bathroom to pee, come back out to watch more TikTok’s, then got herself ready, and then slowly walked down the stairs and the second she opened the door, she started acting scared and confused.
Anyway, I had just moved out this year and moved in with my friend. My mom sold the house (my brothers and I told her not to because home ownership is fucking rare in our city) and then asked my older half brother who is a cop to access any records to see where I was now living. He told her without thinking any deeper about it and now my mom had literally moved into an apartment just down the street to be closer to me.
Thankfully, I was only staying with my friend temporarily. I will be moving again and out of this city and region. I’m going to be moving far away with my partner. And maybe, if I get any sort of news she still looking for me, I’ll proceed with a restraining order.
This stupid bitch doesn’t even like me the same way she didn’t even like my dad. You would think she would want to be near one of her favorite kids, but she doesn’t know that I had heard her literally plan to use me as her free retirement plan. She is FULLY AWARE of what she is doing. She had literally told my aunt that she wouldn’t want to do this to my siblings because she wants them to be free and to live their life, but that’s exactly why she’s always trying to be near me and hunt me down.
She’s glad my dad is dead because it now helps her victim narrative. I’ve literally seen her use the whole “I’m sad and recently widowed” act to garner more sympathy and when she gains someone’s sympathy, she tries to manipulate those people into turning against me and solely ever helping her because they see her as a poor little victim and me as the ungrateful mean kid.
I’m getting a fucking restraining order on this dumb bitch if she tries to follow me again.
DCHome October 08, 2026 at 11:57 am00
Sorry you went through this. I can relate 1000X fold. The reason your mom, mine, Jennette McCurdy's and countless other sadistic cunts are the way that they are is like you said, them being coddled and spoiled. They go through life always getting what they want, yet can NEVER be happy.
I for one hate my mother and used to listen to Cleanin Out My Closet a lot as a kid. I still can think about my mother and the quote "you selfish bitch. I hope you fuckin burn in hell for this shit" pops in my head. If there's an afterlife that's where she is going. anonymous 2 hours ago
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I for one hate my mother and used to listen to Cleanin Out My Closet a lot as a kid. I still can think about my mother and the quote "you selfish bitch. I hope you fuckin burn in hell for this shit" pops in my head. If there's an afterlife that's where she is going.
anonymous 2 hours ago