I wish I wasn't a woman

Sometimes being a woman fuking sucks. We are just constantly being objectified. And especially when you are an asian woman, men be glazing that shit because they want an asian girlfriend and its so fucking weird. Also someone who plays games too, can't be treated normally. I did an experiment where I pretended to be a guy on a game and I felt more included. I was also being a genuine person too so I wasn't really "acting" like a guy, I was more being myself and told them I was a guy - simple as that. And within that experiment, with a different set of men in a video game, I was in a voice call and they know I'm a girl. They started using more slurs and being misogynistic. Their jokes were centered around the fact that I was a woman as if they couldn't come up with a different insult. Also, why the need to insult me? I can't have a good time playing games and just vibe with you? Tf?

I will say THERE ARE MEN THAT ARE NORMAL AND TREAT WOMEN NORMAL. I am surrounded by normal men but there are some that are disgusting and feel threatened that a woman is playing games.

Also being out at night is so ass too. I dress normally and it doesn't matter how the fuck I want to dress in the end, I just dress to express myself. And men always find an excuse to objectify or they make assumptions based on the way you look. I simply wear a hoodie and joggers and I get asked if I want a ride - no I don't fuck you, leave me alone. I'm fine with taking the bus. But during the early morning and night time, I am extremely hyperaware of my surroundings. Like fuck I can't live without thinking im going to be ganged up.

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anonymous Body October 17, 2026 at 9:00 am 1 0