Boyfriend cheating

I met my bf about 5 years ago and when we met it was in a game called black ops 4. We played 1 match and I ghosted him afterwards. He texted me months later if I wanted to play. I said yes from then on we started playing the game almost every day that was in 2020. I started to like him and he started to like me so in December 30,2021 we began dating so it became a long distance relationship. Our relationship was good while it was in a long distance relationship. In June 29,2025 he called me while I was at work saying that he had an argument with his parents and he asked if he could come live with me. He lived in Texas and I live in Los Angeles. I said yes I paid for his trip and it was the first time of us being together. While we were in a long distance relationship I found out he had texted his ex I asked him what it was and he said he texted her but she never answered. I later came to find out that he actually was still talking to her then. We have been living together for a little more than a year and I have been having issues with him masterbating online webcams with girls and watching porn. He also had a screenshot of his ex username that also became an argument. He said he was going to Change and whatever. So I bought him a bottle of hard liquor and he spent his whole Friday night drinking and playing the game form 9pm at the way to 10am. I was sleeping at this time and when I woke up he was drunk so he went to sleep I checked his phone and he had logged in to an old Snapchat account which he had alot of girls he used to talk to. He called all of them they just didn’t answer. The ones that did text they would ask who he was and he asked one girl in particular if she wanted to be his sneaky link and if they wanted to FaceTime and do sexual things I guess he wanted that with every girl to see which one would answer him. He also called his ex and she never answered. The girl in which he was asking if she wanted to do things with him told him that he had kids and a baby daddy. So refused and didn’t answer anymore and a second girl answered and he said that they used to go crazy on FaceTime and she said she didn’t know him. I feel betrayed I have done so many things to save this relationship and I just feel deeply hurt and just stupid I’m not sure what to do. I told him I was breaking up with him and that he has a week to get out my house. Now that I have calmed down i feel like can give him another chance but I feel like I need space right now and he told me that he is going to change and that he still wants to be with me but that if I want him to leave that he would go back to his parents house and work on himself and that he would be better for me and then Pursue me again. That he truly loves me and he started crying saying he didn’t mean none of it. I honestly think if we take a break off I won’t want to go back with him I know he hold start talking to other girls or just forget about me so I’m not sure what to do that obvious thing is to leave him but I’m stupid and hurt I just don’t know. I need advice I’m being stupid.

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Michelle v Relationships August 08, 2026 at 7:58 pm 0 1