Women don’t like sex, and we have to talk about it

Women don’t like sex, actually.

A scene from fleabag (the prime comedy-drama series), summed this up in very effective few words. She basically said that women could not care less about the actual physical feeling of sex, it’s more of the attention and validation, that they obtain in the courtship and male attention.

I think this is very important to point out because this is something we already knew back in the day. But the feminist narrative, in an effort to bring a sense of equality in all arenas, has constantly pushed the lie that women are just as horny as men. Which is biologically and sociologically impossible. If this were the actual case, the world would be caught up on a 24 hour constant orgy.

Female libido is small, fleeting, capricious and dependent on many modifiable and non modifiable factors. Things like hormonal level presence of mild disease, age, even the weather.

And this is fine.

It is OK to point out differences between men and women. And the so-called equality narrative can be somewhat understandable.

But when 90% of men in dating apps, go completely ignored. When 99% of women give attention to only 5% of men in the highest tier of attractiveness. When we have a massive loneliness and sexlessness crisis. When we have young men killing themselves on the regular because of despair and loneliness. How can you even begin to say that women actually enjoy fucking as a physical act? How can you even spit out those words with any kind of credibility or seriousness? Do most women not understand what being horny feels like? Is that the problem? The yearning, the hunger, the need.? of course not. Women are never going to understand what it’s like to be horny because they have very low levels of testosterone. Only a beautiful and precious few (around 5% of the female population) have what could be close to a man’s libido.

They can come up with all this bullshit that “oh women are just as horny, but we’re more selective” ha! you can go fuck yourself five times with a rusty pipe with that shit. People are either horny or they are not. It’s exactly like being hungry. If you’re starving, are you going to be very selective on the type of food that’s presented in front of you? Of course not and saying the contrary is not only incredibly and profoundly idiotic, it’s malicious.

If we go back to admitting basic biological facts as truth, it would at least decrease resentment, and would lead to some sort of understanding of the current crisis, or at least promote efforts to do so.

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Anon Dating March 14, 2026 at 4:13 pm 2 0