Mom wants me to date. Too much pressure. I do not want to date for 1 year or at least 6 months. I want to focus on myself first. I have some goals that I need to accomplish first. I told the same to my mom. My weight has increased lately, I need to bring it down by at least 10 kg. Going for a 13 km walk later today.
In my past experience, very long walks have helped me. In the past, I was able to lose 20 kg. I do not want to go back to what I was. No XXL or 2XL or 3XL. No No No.
Besides, I am not a good judge of people. It takes me a very long time to figure out that the person I am dating is dishonest or cheating. I do not trust my judgement of people. Two very good ladies I know got HIV from their spouse due to no fault of their own. That really scared me about my ability to trust anyone in the dating game.
anonymousDating August 15, 2026 at 7:52 am01
It's probably because of looks because you get to date. That your mom is making you date
Because it's not fair that my mom is not making me date and it's probably because I'm not considered to be attractive but she'd probably make my sister who is 10 years younger then medate and want her to date. She thinks my sister had and is not a virgin but she probably thinks that I never had sex and that I'm probably a virgin and one day she was on the phone with my aunt when my aunt broght up kids being in the background then she said something about my aunt not talking her into having grandkids but talked about my sister and not me and it made me mad because she didn't say anything about me having her grandkids and other people asked her if she had a boyfriend but not me. This man asked why was she not married yet but he didn't ask me why I wasn't married yet and I was mad because he didn't ask me the same thing and then my granddad asked her if she had anyone that she wanted to marry and she said no and then he said that all girls wanted to get married but he didn't ask me if I had anyone that I wanted to marry and then I got mad because I'm a girl but he didn't ask me the same thing and then I didn't feel feminine enough because of it. Anonymous 35 minutes ago
Your mom probably thinks dating is more impantant then yourself and goals but it's not.
There is no such thing as the dating game or dating and if your mom thinks that then she's wrong
The men that date you probably date you for your looks if they do then their wrong, shallow, and vain Anonymous 28 minutes ago
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Because it's not fair that my mom is not making me date and it's probably because I'm not considered to be attractive but she'd probably make my sister who is 10 years younger then medate and want her to date. She thinks my sister had and is not a virgin but she probably thinks that I never had sex and that I'm probably a virgin and one day she was on the phone with my aunt when my aunt broght up kids being in the background then she said something about my aunt not talking her into having grandkids but talked about my sister and not me and it made me mad because she didn't say anything about me having her grandkids and other people asked her if she had a boyfriend but not me. This man asked why was she not married yet but he didn't ask me why I wasn't married yet and I was mad because he didn't ask me the same thing and then my granddad asked her if she had anyone that she wanted to marry and she said no and then he said that all girls wanted to get married but he didn't ask me if I had anyone that I wanted to marry and then I got mad because I'm a girl but he didn't ask me the same thing and then I didn't feel feminine enough because of it.
Anonymous 35 minutes ago
There is no such thing as the dating game or dating and if your mom thinks that then she's wrong
The men that date you probably date you for your looks if they do then their wrong, shallow, and vain
Anonymous 28 minutes ago