Sisters wedding

My sister and my mom are like purposely excluding me from bridal party (I’m IN it) and I know I haven’t really been helping out. College just started up again and I work a lot to pay for it. They just haven’t communicated at all if they wanted or needed my help. I am a bridesmaid and I said I couldn’t attend the bachelorette party because of money. That same month, I had to spend like $1300 on my car. Ofc I can’t drop $500 on a trip. I have savings but that’s an emergency fund. I’m not taking money out for fun money.

My dad gets college credit from his company and instead of giving it to me (bc I pay for my own tuition anyways) he spent it on my sister because he’s going into debt $12k for her wedding.

I get I’m supposed to be excited. It’s my sisters wedding. But the problem with the money and how my mom and sister are like being petty, has totally killed the vibe. It has definitely uncovered how much my parents favor my sister (this is like well known, just showing so much atp). I just know my mom and I are going to get into a fight down the road and she’s going to pin everything on me and say how selfish I am and how I didn’t help.

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anonymous Relationships August 29, 2025 at 1:04 am 0 0