She used to be my best friend

My best friend has been dealing with shit since forever, and you know, I've always been there for her, whenever she needed me. Lately, the only time she ever seems to talk to me is to vent about something going on in her life, or ask me to do something for her, and I'm always there for her, but she is so sucked in her stuff and it's always about her, even if I give her advice, she doesn't take it, i just feel like she spews her negative stuff on to me like I'm some kind off bad energy black hole and expects me to spew some good energy back. I just feel like it's so one sided, she never asks me how I'm doing, says she wants to hang out and then ghosts me when the time comes around, says it's because she doesn't feel good, but she hangs out just fine with her "boyfriend" who she complains about all the time. I'm just so sick of it, she just seems like a stranger coming to therapy to me at this point. I don't know what to do, I just feel resentment towards her right now.

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Mrs. Lonely Friends June 25, 2021 at 5:50 pm 0 0