Saint Paul was right

I'm not talking about his very questionable opinions on women. I'm talking about his advice that if you're able to be happy single you should do that, because it's a blessing not everyone has, and single life is easier than marriage and family life. Hell, it's easier than dating.

Trying to make two lives work together even enough to enjoy a dating relationship practically requires a degree in logistics. Then what happens when you're together will make you wish you had a degree in psych...until you remember every psychologist you ever met was divorced, and then you start wondering if becoming an exorcist is more what's needed to handle romantic relationships.

I don't know, I've been in my situation for a while and I love the guy I'm with (we're gay, just so the trolls have something to gnaw on), I just find it difficult. We've both been through a lot (in great part because we're both gay plus I'm disabled and he's really big so he got bullied nonstop as a kid) and we both just freak out a lot. Sometimes I feel like it's too much to keep up with.

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anonymous Relationships January 26, 2026 at 5:32 pm 0 0