Relationship problems

I wish I could just read minds, whenever I text with her i always have to guess if she's bored, annoyed, irritated... Every dry text gives me a puzzle I can't form, to be honest im so tired of trying to light our conversation up with unnecessary talks despite making it awkward and look stupid because I don't want her to feel what I feel... I feel I'm losing my worth, significance and role being a boyfriend.. sometimes I see her more cheerful and alive whenever she's with her friends, of course including her boy best friends.. there's no denying the look on her eyes to others compared to whenever she is with me... I just want to know what is my worth and why can't she give just a slightest effort to keep the relationship. Am I just someone for her to have the fling and spark experience.. im feeling replaceable, I have avoidance issue because whenever I give someone my effort I just feel stupid for expecting someone to be grateful for it.. I just want to feel valued by her

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Ken Relationships March 16, 2026 at 9:53 am 0 0