Online guys

For context to this I was using a discord account to troll online, but I was actually making some pretty cool friends on there and got used to just talking to people about my hobbies. One day I’m in an ask2dm server telling people my DMs are open if they wanna chat about music or such. Someone messages me in that server and asks me to dm them. Let’s call that person, S. I start off that convo with saying that he could’ve just dmed me. He then goes on to say “I like my dreams to chase me” or such of that. After that we talked a little on music and I shared a playlist with him. He continued to basically “flirt” a lil with me that night with cheesy stupid lines. After that he basically said to me to not ghost him or else he would be sad. The next day I see his account got suspended so I add the other acc in his bio. Him getting suspended should’ve already been like a red flag but anyways. After a while he gets dry and doesn’t talk to me. In the meantime I’m talking to other people and meet this other guy named R.

Now I’ve told R before about this other guy who practically ghosted me after telling me to not ghost him. But one day I get the courage to text S and say hi. Surprisingly he replies back to me and says hi. Then he says a stupid excuse saying “sorry I’m dead pressing 400 pounds” or something. Now that’s just crazy.. so I tell him that if he doesn’t wanna talk to me just say so. Anyways the convo then goes on and he’s making silly stupid excuses saying “oh yeah I had to go save the homeless kids” and stuff like that. But we end up talking about stuff and I’m practically just trying to get him to not ignore me. He also asks me my age again because I guess he forgot. And he continues to flirt with me a lil after that. Then the next day I’m telling R about S and the whole convo and how we talked and how we had similar takes about how we hate lust. And then R starts to go silent and like speak in small words. So ofc I ask him “what’s wrong” he says nothing but I know better then that so I press further and he admits he’s jealous. (Lil note R has said before he really only likes older women and I’m younger then him plus we are just friends and I didn’t see what could’ve made him get jealous in a platonic way) after that he tells me he’s upset and doesn’t wanna talk and is telling me to just go continue to talk to S and practically marry him cause it seems I like him that much. I’m telling R “hey I don’t like him in that way, please don’t be upset” either way he goes offline. And I ask him to just talk to me later. Eventually he hits me with the “???” And wonders why I never texted him again. And I said I was waiting for him to process his feelings and text me first. After that I go on that night to text S and he is being distant again and asks me why I keep texting him. He then goes on to say he only like older girls. (He knows my age and still continued to talk to me and flirt even after that). I end up unfriending S and telling R that I unfriended S and he shouldn’t be jealous now. Everything seems to go back to normal that day when I go to talk to R again. We are mid convo when he decides it’s okay to say a slur that he shouldn’t be saying. I stop right there and basically tell him he can’t say that word and to not say it around me and most especially not say it. He says it’s apart of his humor and kinda gets mad at me. During this I was talking to my friend about it saying that what R said made me a little uncomfortable, and my friend was also talking about the fact that maybe R likes me a little because of past texts. (For context before R has asked me to e/kiss him, has called me “good girl” and said that he didn’t want me talking to other guys because I had him. Which seems a bit odd for a platonic relationship) after that R gets annoyed and I tell my friend about it. My friend tells me that I should block him, but I’m hesitant. I didn’t know if I should. After that R says he needs time to cool down and I ask of him to just respect my boundaries. When I get back online he had texted me first saying he was going to bed. (Btw also he has said ily to me and told me to say it back) so rn he says “i love you” and so i say “Ilyt” (cause i mean ily can be platonic I feel like) anyways then he like asks me to say it normally and at this point my other hand has a popsicle in it so I was typing very slow so anyways I fix it to say “I love you too” and he thinks I’m still mad ig and says “please don’t do this rn” and stuff. Then after I explain he goes on to mention earlier about the fight and then goes on to say he wants me to talk normal like how I always do, and then he starts to beg for me to not leave him and he keeps saying his sorry and how his day was horrible so he got really annoyed, and like kept telling me he loved me and to not leave him. And I was basically just reassuring him. And then eventually he goes silent I change the topic and like he said he had a panic attack- and like now idk what to do cause I mean I still wanna be friends but I feel like it’s bad I’m still friends with him bc of the word he said. And my other friend was saying I was being manipulated but idk…

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anonymous Friends July 29, 2026 at 12:33 am 0 0