im actually so mad what

one of my headmates totally violated my friend's boundaries by being INCREDIBLY sexual and then went off on all of us because of her own actions???
she did this the other day too except it was ableism towards the other guy who has severe trauma from an accident that took a limb instead of being sexual
bro just cuz you have the same disability doesnt mean you can constantly jab him for his. especially when one of his only boundaries is "hey dont joke about my arm pls"
i love her so much (we were in a relationship in source, therefore we still are now) and this is NOT like her wtaf
i think shes been being whiny for the past 3 hours about it. you are not the victim shlawg
she also said my other headmate was "promoting domestic violence" cuz he made a joke saying i need to beat some sense into her. we are all physical abuse survivors including him!!!!!!! please dont act like that joke bothered you when you make far worse ones about your abuse trauma. its ok for you to be ableist because youre disabled but its not ok for him to make that joke when hes been abused??
i love her i really do but please lil bro.... also shes one of those people who thinks "bitch" is a sexist slur and dont get me wrong it CAN be used in a very sexist way but come on dude. you say it all the time.
this is disgusting and we all kinda let go of the topic hours ago but im not forgetting and i highly doubt my friend ever will. i cant help but feel like it was my fault. i shouldve arrived sooner to make her shut up

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subspace t. mine Other July 13, 2025 at 6:38 am 0 0