I hate my wife

I've seen a lot of rants regarding sexless relationships and I'll jump on the wagon. I have not had sex with my wife in over a year now. We are both healthy, I exercise (she doesn't and never wants to), we lead fairly active lives in our jobs, Our child is in college. We have no major physical limitations for it, she just refuses to.

And no one understands guys in sexless marriages at all. They're very quick to point fingers "well, maybe you're out of shape, well, maybe you ought a be nicer. Well, maybe blah blah blah duhhhhhhh!!!!". We are always the bad guys. But there is a reason why withholding sex is WRITTEN WITHIN FAMILY LAW as a means for divorce. We have to stop pretending that men don't need sex to thrive, or that a relationship "is ok" without sex. it is not! Deal with it! Since women don't have libidos or desires requiring sexual release, it is easy for them to punish their significant others with dry spells. And it's awful.

And then, as a guy, you fall into a vicious circle in which the more you request sex, the more you are labeled as "pushy". So you give up completely.
Oh, but you try to find sexual comfort somewhere else...GASP! how dare you, you are the worst human in the world, game over, your house, your kids and your savings are gone.

Honestly, I want a divorce. Not even to date other women or find sex somewhere else, just to not see her fucking judgemental face ever again.

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Mick Dating January 11, 2023 at 10:51 pm 2 0