I Hate my husbands autistic son

I absolutely hate my husband's autistic son. He is 16 years old and high functioning. I know I would probably get a ton of hate for this because he is autistic, but I just need to get this out.

Our marriage is great except for this son. I'll call him DA for dumbass. He is dumb as hell, an absolute moron. Beyond anything affected by his mild autism he is just an idiot. He lacks the ability to think or problem solve, he cant put 2 and 2 together essentially.
Now, him being stupid is more or less tolerable, but what isn't tolerable is how disgusting this kid is. DA is greasy and stinky, he doesn't wash his hands unless told to. He touches everything with his nasty fingers and cant even wipe his own ass properly. He once flooded the washing machine with literal shit because his underwear was full of it.
Then there is the problem of food. He is a pig, a glutton with no end in sight. He lies about food, sneaks it whenever he can and will manipulate his grandparents into feeding him extreme amounts of food. If this was an autism problem where he just cant control himself then it might be more tolerable since its not in his control. But he is a lier, lies about food and his eating all the time. Steals and hides food and takes advantage of people. He is a F#%^&% PIG.
I cant wait until he is old and out on his own, life is so much nicer and easier and cleaner without DA around. But he likely wont be out unless he goes to college or something.

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anonymous Other May 26, 2025 at 8:33 am 4 1