I dont get along with my mom

I hate how horrendously controlling, judgemental and hot tempered this woman is. She's never let me choose my own clothes, own choices and gets upset at the smallest thing i do (e.g not washing the dishes because i was busy with other things). and when she gets upset, she does the most horrendous things. She once threatened to take a knife and cut my arm and leg off, then another time she ranted loudly to my family members, right infront of me. She spams messages calling me names like "selfish", "fucker", "piece of shit" and she even goes out of her way to spam call me. Im now a grown woman, yet she has cameras in the house and gets crazy angry if I turn them off. I feel uncomfortable with her mere presence, so much so that i never tell her anything, because she would judge me rather than listen to what i have to say. The whole family dislikes her because of how mean she can get. She once nearly hit her parents with a chair during an argument, which resulted in them having to stop my mom by grabbing the chair from her. She always acts like the victim, constantly victimising herself and always believing shes the most angelic thing on earth. Im 17 now, and am using whatever money i can save to eventually have enough so that i can move out one day with my pets (She hates them and always kicks/ shouts at one of them).

P.S: She's been through 2 divorces, and i always tell myself "no wonder" when she does every wrong thing like making me that one sibling that had to take care of everything (house chores, pets, her own kids heck even having to wake her up for work or prep for her work/ appointments). Her ex husbands weren't any better, they took drugs etc. but shes no better. (Just typing all this while she's scolding me for not washing the dishes because im busy prepping for exam and already told her im doing it later)

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anonymous Home October 21, 2025 at 10:54 am 0 0