friendship falling out

so my friend recently distanced herself from me, it happened when the guy im currently talking to slept over and she came in early in the morning and found him in our room. This is a guy she's had a past with but i know from both sides they kissed and possibly got touchy with each other, however i know this meant nothing to either of them. She now has a boyfriend they've been together for a year now, me and this guy started talking to each other in october. so way after my friend and him had their fling. however after he slept over i started to notice her changing, she became distant and not as talkative to me anymore. She recently let me know that she's been distant because of the guy, she felt disrespected by me because me and the guys situation has progressed. she claimed that she would never talk to someone i've had a past with, this obv hurt my feelings. and to make things worse i recently found out that before me and her met she had kissed a guy one of our other friend claimed to like at the time, yet the two of them are now bestfriends and she never cut her off. her birthday is coming up and she sent out invites to all of our friends except me, i was with her when she made the invites.. i need to hear what others have to say because its killing me.. unless other friends are around me and her are completely silent towards each other.

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lucy Friends February 11, 2026 at 6:17 pm 0 0