Freight trains avoided

I don't believe in God, but if I did I would think what I'm about to talk about is divine intervention of some kind.

Im single and without any real options to get to socialize with people my age in person. This leaves shitty dating apps as the only option to even find a potential girlfriend, and I'll try the apps now and then.

A year and a half ago I match with this bitch. Pretty in the face, dyed hair, Hot Topic fashion. Perpetual victim who used an ailment she had as an excuse for everything. Incredibly hard to talk to due to her not having a personality besides her victim complex. She unmatches at random.

I downloaded a trashier app than the one I met her on, guess who I see. She was on there, her pictures were different and she was less attractive than she was on her other profile. And here's the kicker. She listed having kids, something she didn't have listed on the other app. On the other app she lied and said she didn't.

The other situation was this unmotivated woman who I tried to make things work with and saw for a little bit. No personality. No motivation. Wasn't employed and didn't care to do anything to ever even try to improve her life in any way, shape, or form. It took forever to even get it out of her that she was unemployed. She was weird when I went to her house, like she was trying to hide something.

I had met her family once. I ran into her sister after the relationship had ended and she mentioned going back home and how she'd tell the ex she saw me. It clicked right then. She and the sister were living together, my ex didn't want me to know this for some reason, and the adult sister was basically confined to her upstairs bedroom like Harry Potter when I was at the house. I assume the house belonged to a relative. My ex being taken care of financially by others would explain her laziness and lack of regard for herself. Really fucked up that she was trying to hide this from me and was so dodgy a kid everything to begin with. Makes me suspicious of what else she didn't want me to know.

But yeah, two unstable dishonest women who were trashy in their own ways. Definitely did not miss out.

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anonymous Dating August 29, 2026 at 11:29 am 0 0