Dear boyfriend

Dear boyfriend,

You do not have EDS, you're just fat. Told you for 6 years straight you need to eat less and you don't which is making our groceries bills higher. You claim you eat healthy but you don't. You're not losing any weight, you're staying the same. We are tracking your weight every week so you have no excuse.

You do not have back problems you're just fat. You do not work out at all and just sit at your desk all day. You expect me to make you go to the gym. I have to walk you like a dog. Why would I be attracted to a man with no discipline? Why do I have to come everywhere with you and make you work out, why do I have to stand there and watch you do it otherwise you won't do it . Fuck it if you have ADHD.

Why do I have to have sex with you when you put in no effort? No foreplay, never missionary, I always have to be on top because you're too fat, and it takes you 2 hours to come. Like how boring. I now doubt if I'm the problem in bed because you won't stop looking at porn every night.

Now it's affecting my views of my own body. I put on weight because you made me go on SSRIs. Now I used to be skinny at least I had that going for me . Now I have nothing . I now have a fat belly . I guess if you date a fat guy you end up a fat woman. No one finds me attractive anymore. My skin and hair is terrible, I have fat rather than muscle all because I have to babysit a full grown man who can't handle taking out the trash. Who can't say no to 2-3 times a week of takeaway because you're " too tired" and "nothing sparks joy" but we have perfectly good food in the cupboards. You know what joy is ? Not running out of breathe because you walked up the stairs or pulled some weeds out of the garden.

Dude either you want to be healthy or not but don't spend your time gaslighting me and saying you want to be better, that you want to get back to your old skinny body, when in reality you couldn't give less of a fuck. I hope one day a better man takes me away from you because I am done trying to help. I am done making your meals, I am done doing your washes, I am done doing the house cleaning. I am done having sex with a man I don't find attractive.

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anonymous Relationships August 16, 2026 at 9:07 am 0 0