Boys.....

So this guy, thought we where talking. Basically I joke with my friends to get me a boyfriend. So this guy T liked me. And I wasn't into him, he just wasn't my type and I didn't wanna force myself into liking him cause thats just messed up you know. So he invited me to a basketball game which my other friends boyfriend was playing in so I was like fine I'll go. When I got there (I had met him 2 days ago) he put his arm around my shoulder. So i was like thats fine im just a bit uncomfortable. So I was like constantly scooting away but he wasn't getting the hint. So then I bent down to ask one of my friends a question, and he slid his hand down to my hip. And I was grossed out, so I kept scooting and pushing him away (reminder we werent talking, werent dating, and I met him two days ago) he kept moving is hand down to the point it was almost on my butt, so my friend had to lit grab his hand and move it up. So then as I was lit chagpting a hey this thing that didn't exist is over, he texted me a whole, can we talk i wanna get to know u better. So I sent him this text which was me saying pretty much its not u its me, but he literally said "Oh thats cool ig, I was going to try to fix it but ig not." LIKE WHAT. I also made it a clear boundry the day I met him I wanted to go slow and didn't want to go all crazy so fast, which i mean that wasnt awful it just opened my eyes that if I made a different boundry he probs wouldnt follow that. But the WORST part is now every single guy in my school is talking about how I played him, and I haven't been at school since I got sick, but all of my friends are texting me like "everyone is talking about how u played T and I dont believe them". Anyway, what do I do?????

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anonymous Dating February 11, 2026 at 5:11 pm 0 0