Advice?

So basically, theres this one ex i have right and we only dated for a week before we broke up but I continued to like him for a couple years. I finally got over him (somewhat) somewhere between the ending of last year to beginning of this year and I have this friend who I consider myself to be really close with (maybe not for her?) but anyways she started talking to that ex I mentioned earlier and now I don't know how to feel about it. Most people say I should be mad or at least upset that she didn't tell me or ask if it was okay with me. Then theres also those who say I shouldn't be mad or upset because its my ex and I shouldn't care about him anymore since he's now in the past. But honestly you might say to just follow my heart but I don't even know my own heart or feelings right now like how do I deal with this situation? And to be completely honest, I might have a bit of feelings for him which I did in fact tell her before I knew she was talking to him so now I honestly feel bad like I don't know. But at the same time like I don't hate her for it or anything and I don't mind her talking to him I think? I actually don't know. My feelings are not feeling right now. Help?

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Dee Relationships May 18, 2026 at 9:05 pm 0 0