I got into a fight with my boyfriend and told him he’s being abusive and it makes it harder for me to communicate when he’s actively trying to intimate me anytime I say anything and his response was “well it’s not fair that I have to listen to you. Why do I have to listen to you? That’s not fair to me. What if I don’t want to hear you complain? If you don’t complain, then there wouldn’t be any problems.”
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Why are people like this? Or more specifically why are men like this?
I got laid off and still haven’t found a job. I feel stuck and slightly afraid. I know I need to leave. I was actually planning on leaving him, but right when I was going to end things for good, I got laid off. Bills fucked me up and left me with very little money. If I had a job again I swear I will leave him, but right now I’m stuck. I have to keep living with him or else I will literally be homeless.
I have no family and none of my friends live near me. My best friend even moved out of the country.
I’m so angry at myself for ever getting myself involved with a guy like this. I know I got manipulated a lot especially early on and now I’m stuck with this guy.
It pisses me off… I wish there weren’t people like this in the world at all. What the fuck is wrong with people….
katDating January 21, 2026 at 3:24 pm11
folks shood show they appreciatae the grub and booze by sifting the cat boxes and washing the dishes and making a alibi for whenever. anonymous 5 hours ago
So, you're living off him, and he's willingly supporting you, yet you're complaining to him all the time? See, this is why men are going trad! We are sick of women acting like you're entitled to our financial support, but you don't have to contribute a damn thing around our homes and that by asking you to take up your WOMANLY expectations of domestic duties, that we are oppressing you and taking away your rights. Females have been allowed to be feral for decades and have no direction, and nothing to bring to the table, all the while expecting men to continue to be the providers with nothing in return! Females always talk about demanding "equality" and change for themselves, but want things to remain the very same men! Men do all the hard work, but women shouldn't even have to cook a damn meal or carry a load of clothes to the washing machine!
You don't have a dime to your name it sounds like, and you'd be living on the streets right now if not for him, remember that! Go check out how terrible some homeless shelters are, or go live in your car parked on the side of random streets, or parking lots, in parks, at a lake, or some creepy pull off or truck stop for awhile, freezing at night, having nowhere to even go to the bathroom but outside, no food, no access to water or a shower, then your car gets tagged and towed because you can't just park where you want, or your registration runs out, it breaks down, or you can't afford gas anymore so are stuck. Go try that lifestyle out for awhile, and then see what you have to REALLY complain about lady! Believe me, I have been in the situation where you live out of your car, it fucking sucks, and I am a MAN and have natural alpha survival instincts and could barely make it, as a female you're sure the hell not going to last very long! Women can't do shit without a man showing them out and doing the tough stuff for them! Plus, you're more at risk than a man out there! I can fight, you can't!
You better check yourself girlie, and show that man who took you in some respect, do more stuff around HIS house for him, and give him better lays in bed while you're at it, because I promise your not keeping up with that either, another reason he isn't wanting to listen to you!
When you feel like getting a damn job, and can support yourself and move out, then you can complain and bitch at him, until then , you sure the hell don't bite the hand that feeds you! Kyle 5 hours ago
Lol Kyle sounds so mad. Who hurt you dude? benson 4 hours ago
Lol Kyle sounds so mad. Who hurt you dude? benson 4 hours ago
The first person wrote a whole ass story for a comment. Not reading that shit but I can tell this post is about to trigger tf outta incels and guys who like to abuse girls.
To OP, you don’t deserve to be abused no matter the situation. People who excuse that need to hop off the internet and go to see a doctor. Y’all are part of the reason why people suffer in this world. Your attitude is exactly why nobody wants to date your ass. I’ve never had issues with girls because I’m not a fucking loser. If you treat people like regular human beings then there won’t be issues. The first comment is the most fatherless incel shit I’ve ever in my life. I’ve never heard of any guy I know ever saying shit some like that. Grow tf up. tak01927401 4 hours ago
The first person wrote a whole ass story for a comment. Not reading that shit but I can tell this post is about to trigger tf outta incels and guys who like to abuse girls.
To OP, you don’t deserve to be abused no matter the situation. People who excuse that need to hop off the internet and go to see a doctor. Y’all are part of the reason why people suffer in this world. Your attitude is exactly why nobody wants to date your ass. I’ve never had issues with girls because I’m not a fucking loser. If you treat people like regular human beings then there won’t be issues. The first comment is the most fatherless incel shit I’ve ever in my life. I’ve never heard of any guy I know ever saying shit some like that. Grow tf up. tak01927401 4 hours ago
6 Rant Comments
anonymous 5 hours ago
You don't have a dime to your name it sounds like, and you'd be living on the streets right now if not for him, remember that! Go check out how terrible some homeless shelters are, or go live in your car parked on the side of random streets, or parking lots, in parks, at a lake, or some creepy pull off or truck stop for awhile, freezing at night, having nowhere to even go to the bathroom but outside, no food, no access to water or a shower, then your car gets tagged and towed because you can't just park where you want, or your registration runs out, it breaks down, or you can't afford gas anymore so are stuck. Go try that lifestyle out for awhile, and then see what you have to REALLY complain about lady! Believe me, I have been in the situation where you live out of your car, it fucking sucks, and I am a MAN and have natural alpha survival instincts and could barely make it, as a female you're sure the hell not going to last very long! Women can't do shit without a man showing them out and doing the tough stuff for them! Plus, you're more at risk than a man out there! I can fight, you can't!
You better check yourself girlie, and show that man who took you in some respect, do more stuff around HIS house for him, and give him better lays in bed while you're at it, because I promise your not keeping up with that either, another reason he isn't wanting to listen to you!
When you feel like getting a damn job, and can support yourself and move out, then you can complain and bitch at him, until then , you sure the hell don't bite the hand that feeds you!
Kyle 5 hours ago
benson 4 hours ago
benson 4 hours ago
To OP, you don’t deserve to be abused no matter the situation. People who excuse that need to hop off the internet and go to see a doctor. Y’all are part of the reason why people suffer in this world. Your attitude is exactly why nobody wants to date your ass. I’ve never had issues with girls because I’m not a fucking loser. If you treat people like regular human beings then there won’t be issues. The first comment is the most fatherless incel shit I’ve ever in my life. I’ve never heard of any guy I know ever saying shit some like that. Grow tf up.
tak01927401 4 hours ago
To OP, you don’t deserve to be abused no matter the situation. People who excuse that need to hop off the internet and go to see a doctor. Y’all are part of the reason why people suffer in this world. Your attitude is exactly why nobody wants to date your ass. I’ve never had issues with girls because I’m not a fucking loser. If you treat people like regular human beings then there won’t be issues. The first comment is the most fatherless incel shit I’ve ever in my life. I’ve never heard of any guy I know ever saying shit some like that. Grow tf up.
tak01927401 4 hours ago