The DaVinci Code: Dating Edition

I read this somewhere else, but will paraphrase it in my own words. Dating app people suck because they want a relationship but aren't equipped to take care of themselves, much less another person in any way. A straight woman wrote the comment I just borrowed from, I agree and am a straight male.

The women I went out with through dating apps were just like the type of men who she described. They are lazy, entitled, stubborn, and childish. They have no personality or conversational skills at all. They may or may not be working (holding a job is a big ask for someone on a dating app) and if you get them to talk you'll hear how they are barely functional. Lazy, just fucking lazy and unmotivated in every possible way. They can't cook themselves a meal. They seldom do basic chores. Just insane levels of childish laziness and inactivity.

The first one who I actually went on some dates with, I tried for awhile to make it work. Ignore that she had been lying to me about her employment status and living situation (was living with her sister in a house that belonged to a dead relative). I tried until it felt like I was doing everything and got tired of worrying about her. Like there was no reason I should have been thinking about if she was going to start acting like an adult as she continued to make excuses for why she wasn't putting in applications, should have never even been a thing. I'd bet anything this person is still single and still sitting unemployed at that relative's house, as she makes fucking zero effort in bettering herself. She wasn't sick, disabled, a mother (thank God), held captive, or anything. She had an ability to do things, just chose not to. Literally wasting her life.

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anonymous Relationships October 19, 2026 at 4:47 pm 0 0