You match with someone who you liked mostly out of desperation.
Hey. What do you like to do for fun?
(Day and a half later) I like most things. Crime dramas and Marvel.
What's your favorite series?
(Two days later) Don't have one.
And usually here is where I'd give up. Clearly the other person is not trying or truly interested and it's all about them. Hell, even getting more than three words is a stretch with low effort ass profiles.
Then if you match with a really good looking person they aren't going to respond at all or engage.
You keep getting let down by this to where you're pretty much swiping on anyone. Then you get uncomfortable when you end up matching with some scary looking piece of trash who you wouldn't even look at if you saw them at Walmart.
anonymousFunny September 08, 2025 at 4:49 pm10
And anyone who advertises mental illness on their profile. Shut the fuck up. You are not special.
Plenty of is have been abused. Plenty of us struggle mentally. The only thing is the majority of people aren't so full of shit that we make it our identity and advertise it to people. Like I would never fucking tell someone I never met who I was in a cult that still has me fucked up in a lot of ways. Would any sane person not be put off by hearing that shit right out the gate? anonymous 1 day ago
"I was in a horrific cult that gave me CPTSD that I still at times struggle with. Lets trauma bond."
Does that sound like something a stable or desirable person would say? Would you wanna go out for drinks with someone who is going to tell exaggerated sob stories where they up anything that happened to them to 10, because they want to pretend mental health buzzwords apply to them when they don't? anonymous 1 day ago
Not special? I was admitted to the mental hospital once and earned the nickname "Chief." What do you mean not special? I'm chief as far as you're concerned. Fucking Hiawatha over here casually ending wars and using them to invent governments that Europeans later take credit for retroactively like Steve Jobs laying people off with retroactive notices. Funny how civilized societies are apparently capable of time travel now.
Anyway, online dating is fucking garbage. Don't forget the women who be like, "I want something serious" so "we're just gonna be friends" or they match with you knowing you're like 50-100+ miles away. I'm not moving to bum fucking egypt for you and your 4 kids. Doesn't matter what you look like. Usually not very attractive anyway as you noted. It's not even always because they're naturally ugly or anything. I've matched with so many women who have a more retro style than Taylor Swift or Sabrina Carpenter in the worst ways possible that it makes them look 2-3x their age. Just go old school Avril Lavigne: T shirt, jeans, and chucks at that point JFC.
and then if you do get a date with them they likely don't have a car, were kicked out of CC because high school algebra is too hard for them, and expect you to drive them all around town spending what little money you've got on them after bitching about men who do it to them.
I'm burnt out. I have a cat. Women aren't worth the effort. You can't judge them based on their interests, hobbies, body, career or career goals or education or anything. They're literally infallible. Usually cats are the same, but my cat is chill af. I accidentally gave him too many treats for his sensitive tummy and he still chills with me. You think a woman would do that? No. They'd keep scarfing that shit down and keep expecting more, and if you don't provide you're an incel misogynist. anonymous 14 hours ago
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Plenty of is have been abused. Plenty of us struggle mentally. The only thing is the majority of people aren't so full of shit that we make it our identity and advertise it to people. Like I would never fucking tell someone I never met who I was in a cult that still has me fucked up in a lot of ways. Would any sane person not be put off by hearing that shit right out the gate?
anonymous 1 day ago
Does that sound like something a stable or desirable person would say? Would you wanna go out for drinks with someone who is going to tell exaggerated sob stories where they up anything that happened to them to 10, because they want to pretend mental health buzzwords apply to them when they don't?
anonymous 1 day ago
Anyway, online dating is fucking garbage. Don't forget the women who be like, "I want something serious" so "we're just gonna be friends" or they match with you knowing you're like 50-100+ miles away. I'm not moving to bum fucking egypt for you and your 4 kids. Doesn't matter what you look like. Usually not very attractive anyway as you noted. It's not even always because they're naturally ugly or anything. I've matched with so many women who have a more retro style than Taylor Swift or Sabrina Carpenter in the worst ways possible that it makes them look 2-3x their age. Just go old school Avril Lavigne: T shirt, jeans, and chucks at that point JFC.
and then if you do get a date with them they likely don't have a car, were kicked out of CC because high school algebra is too hard for them, and expect you to drive them all around town spending what little money you've got on them after bitching about men who do it to them.
I'm burnt out. I have a cat. Women aren't worth the effort. You can't judge them based on their interests, hobbies, body, career or career goals or education or anything. They're literally infallible. Usually cats are the same, but my cat is chill af. I accidentally gave him too many treats for his sensitive tummy and he still chills with me. You think a woman would do that? No. They'd keep scarfing that shit down and keep expecting more, and if you don't provide you're an incel misogynist.
anonymous 14 hours ago