My ex-husband

First, I’d like to say I was born in 1960. I had serious difficulty with spelling and reading. I wasn’t diagnosed with dyslexia until I had children of my own. I cannot write a proper sentence. So be understanding please. I want to talk about a 30 year marriage. I am now 65. My ex-husband would be 59. Story begins when I was four months pregnant. I had been very ill and was chasing after three little girls, I was tired and emotional. I went with my husband to pick up his paycheck. It’s a restaurant we anddecided to have lunch. I sat down. He went to the office. almost immediately. One of his associate managers sat down at the table with me and informed me that he was having an affair with a 19-year-old Asian girl. Backtrack my husband portrayed himself as an honorable man. He said he liked older women. He said he didn’t look at filthy magazines something I didn’t tolerate. And that he didn’t cheat so imagine how surprised I am when I have to listen to this information. after talking with him he convinced me that they were just friends. two days later I found a filthy Asian magazine in the bathroom. I knew then that my husband was fantasizing about a young girl he works with at work, made me sick. I was extremely upset. I forgave him. We moved on couple years later a 19 year old girl at work becomes life headed. He picked her up, carries her to a table and hand feeds her ice cream. This is from the coldest man I know example I’m nine months pregnant. I misjudged a step and stumbled several feet and caught myself on a display case. My husband looked at me with his arms crossed and a smirk on his face and said are you done? boy I felt like nothing to him. He treated me like this all the time but some young pretty girl at work gets lightheaded and hand feeds her ice cream? I knew he had a new bathroom buddy. I forgave him we moved on. We’re both working in the same restaurant my husband’s the manager I’m in a waitress a pretty manager is his associate. It’s moving day. We’ve just bought our first house together. We have to be out of the apartment that day. we have the truck for one day we had all our money tied up in this home purchase I had four children, a three-year-old and eight-year-old girl and nine year-old girl and a 13 year-old girl we lived on a second floor apartment. His female associate calls and says the other manager called in sick and somebody on dayshift called in sick. She needed him to come in immediately. He turned and looked at me and says I have to go to work. I was stunned. I couldn’t believe it are you are you for real? needless to say two of my daughters and myself moved all the furniture and possessions of six people everything but a China hutch. The staircase was L shaped meaning that we couldn’t get the king size mattress down the stairs without lifting it up over the banister it took us four tries. We had to do the same thing with the couch, my 13-year-old and my nine-year-old would stand on the other side of the couch and we would lift it up over the banister. It was a very hard day. to my surprise. My husband worked 13 hours that day he covered the missing employee for part of breakfast and lunch and then stayed as a manager for the night shift and let the other manager go home. He got home at around 11:30 PM. We were still putting things together. I was working on putting the beds together the bunkbeds with my two older daughters eight year-old was trying to entertain three year-old the entire day. There was a few more in between, but I stayed what a fool and after her 30 years of marriage, he decides that he doesn’t want to be with me anymore. Unfortunate for him. I got all the proceeds from the house. I have alimony for 10 years. in the divorce papers he wrote get a job and support yourself. I worked 62 years. My disability was from a brutal attack when I was younger and as I aged, the pain became unbearable. My disability came the same day he delivered the divorce papers. And because I am legally disabled, he had to pay alimony ha ha ha. Basically what I wanna know is what do you think about the moving situation? I didn’t even tell you the other things he did with this woman I have to tell you so the second event with this manager is that at lunchtime, my husband would choose to have lunch with her instead of me, which hurt, his excuse was we’re both managers. The luncheon were completely unprofessional. They did not discuss schedules or ordering or anything to do with work. come to find out my husband told this pretty associate that he was only with me because of the children I was devastated. There’s so much more. I want to know what people think of this man.

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