my bf doesnt trust me

[LONG BUT PLS READ BC I NEED ADVICE] Ok so this has lowkey been weighing on me for a while so here we go. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months now, not including our month long talking stage. During that talking stage, I came out to him and told him I was bisexual. He didn't really think much of it and we just went on or whatever. Recently, though, I brought it up to him again, because we haven't really talked about it since. I asked him if he still remembered I was bi, and he said yeah but he hasn't really thought much about it and asked me why. I told him that I just wanted to make sure he knew, because it's a large part of my identity. I don't really remember what happened after that, but he seemed more distant and quiet during the conversation and I asked him what was wrong. He said that he was just thinking about how "now" he has to worry about me cheating on him with both girls and guys. I said that no matter what my sexuality is, I still love him and only want him, and that it sort of hurt me that he doesn't trust me to stay loyal now that he remembered I liked both genders. I've been the same person the entire time we've been dating, but now that he remembered it's apparently something to be concerned about. Even though he said he trusts me, he wouldn't be worried about me cheating if he trusted me, right? So now I don't know what to do, because I know that I can't change who I'm into but I know that it makes him scared to think about how he has to worry about both genders.I've given him reassurance multiple times, but he's still concerned. I still really love him and want a future with him, but I just really need advice on what to do in this situation. HELP MEEEEE.

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anonymous Dating December 17, 2025 at 2:15 am 1 0