Men do not sit their children

Ladies, it is your job to tend to the children, to be with them, look after them and care for them. You are the ones who have them, you are designed and created to be mothers. You are supposed to be the nurturing parent. This is why traditionally, women have the kids nearly 100% of the time. This is why you all stay home with the children.

Too many modern females have forgotten this. Going off to work, or taking some menial college courses. Joining some social club or a group, going places with "the girls", taking up stupid classes or hobbies, going shopping for personal items. traveling, having a drink, sleeping all day, going out dinner, having "spa days" or "self care" days. It is all total and utter bullshit!

Let me clue you women into something that you all seem to miss. WE men DO NOT CARE about your college degree, your career, where you have vacationed to, what artistic or creative talents you might have. Wed hate your friends, and we'd rather you not put so much into YOUR side of the family, because once you marry us, you take OUR name, and become part of OUR family, and that is where your energy and focus should be. You leave your family, to join OURS. That is the whole point. We for sure don't want you giving attention to some stupid ass mut or a dumb cat either, and would rather you didn't have those creatures in our home. What we care about, and what we expect as your husband, is that you are an active, engaged, and fulfilling mother, and respectful, peaceful, and submitting wife to us, and that you cherish your Christian faith. Those are things that WE look for. Those are the qualifies WE are hoping stand out. Never should you put anything else, or anyone else, above your family and your home, EVER.

Your husband is the HEAD of your household and YOUR leader. You take directives from him. You are to constantly be seeking his approval, and working to make sure he is satisfied with how you are conducting yourself as his wife. You need to always be working harder, doing more, and improving.

But now days, I see this nonsense about men being strapped down with the kids. Women leaving for hours on end to do go frivolous selfish things, and forcing their man to BABYSIT the kids. And yes, BABYSIT. He is SITTING in for the DUTY of his wife and the children's mother. Men do not "watch" the kids, they don't tend to them, they don't look after them. They don't feed them. Read to them, Bathe them. They don't change diapers. They don't clean up after them. The time a man steps in as a parent, is when he is discipling, asking questions, or when he takes the boys aside to begin to learn them how to become and function as real men.

You ladies always saying you need to leave the kids at home while you do the grocery shopping? Why would that be the case? Women have always taken the kids shopping. That is a new thing that kids are being left at home, with the father. Do image searches of women doing the shopping clear up until the past twenty years or so, and they always had the kids--including the baby, with them. Why would you ever leave the children with your husband? To me, that is a lack of planning on YOUR part ladies. It is also demonstrating that you cannot handle your job fully as a mother if you can't manage to do a side task with your children with you! Your children are ALWAYS supposed to be with you, the MOTHER, so doing basic chores, or errands shouldn't be compromised by you having children with you, because that is part of your existence. That is like saying you can't breath air while you shop or something. It is totally absurd to even say that you need to be alone while you do any sort of domestic responsibilities! All that means is that you cant' cut it as a wife or mother, or a woman overall! YOU ARE FAILING, and that is why we men call MOST of you modern broads, "females" not women, because you don't handle being a women and can't hack it. You're just, "females." or foids.

Nothing irks me more than to see some guy bogged down with a bunch of kids, while his wife is off doing something else or in the distance, or walking ahead of him. Nothing irritates me more than her only holding one child, or a baby, and dumping the rest off on him. I find it utterly unacceptable when a woman walks before her husband, or hurries up past him, or expects him to carry heavy stuff, or bags, or groceries, or hold the door for her. You ladies NEED to start figuring out how to be responsible and take accountability for YOUR duties and expectations as women! We men don't expect you all to come to our work place, and carry our heavy tools arounds, or hold open office doors, or take some of the workload, so we can have a break. We go to work, and we carry the burden and responsibility of it, because that is what men do. We do OUR part, always have. Men haven't changed, women have! You women seem to believe you're all very special, and shouldn't have anything to ever worry about, or any personal tasks, or ever have to do a hard thing, lift a finger, or commit to one thing! Not even your own children or serving your own husband! Half of you have trashed out homes, because you won't get off your OBESE, lazy, asses to put a toy away, or pick up dirty clothes and start a load of laundry, or wipe down a counter, vacuum, mop, sweet or dust! You sit there, unbathed, your hair an unwashed ball of grease pulled back in an oily nasty stringy bun, with patches of red skin all over from not washing yourselves, you smell like days of not showering, your wear soiled, stained baggy clothes, and run around barefoot! You stuff your faces, all day long, and then make a big show of it if you have to get in your messy and trashed out car to go get your kids from school after doing nothing but eating and sleeping all day! Meanwhile, your husband, who is thin, and in a good shape, is off busting his off all day to pay all the bills and make sure everything is taken care of! He comes home, to a disgusting house, no clean clothes, unmade beds, has to kick shit out of his way just to get in the door and deal with screaming, bratty unruly, disrespectful, clingy kids, and listen to your land whale ass bitch and nag at him, relentlessly, then not even bother preparing dinner or putting out (not that he really wants you in the state your in most of the time!)

When did you ladies decide to give up on all self-respect? When did you lose dignity? When did you start with the self-loathing and letting yourselves go? When did you stop giving a fuck how you look and how you dress? When did you stop cleaning up and putting on make up and doing your hair? When did you decide that you hate men, including your husband, and refuse to do a damn thing for him beside constantly berate and treat him like a child, then dump the actual children of on him and vanish for half the night? When did you all decide that you don't have to do what scripture commands of you to obey and serve your husband? When did you all decide that being fat was "sexy" and expecting everyone to agree because you have no desire to enact some impulse control in your lives and get a grip on your health?

Oh wait...I know when! When liberalism took over our society! When all this women's lib and feminism senselessness came around! When we stopped requiring prayer and bible study in the school. When you females decided to one-up all of u men and swooped into the workforce to take our jobs out from under us, and the leftist ran govt joined in with their DEI shit on a stick! You ladies can't be content even with female-centric jobs either. You had plenty of choices for when you did find time to work. You could be nurses, stewardesses, meter maids waitresses, librarians, secretaries, receptionists, phone operators nannies, maids, teachers, cashiers, hair dressers, teach Sunday school, bake and sell cakes and other pastries from home, take care of the elderly, be a florist, run a daycare center out of your home in the day, pet care, work the counter in a shop or at the mall, be a make-up artist or nail tech, ....but no..no...no, none of that was good enough. You had to shove your way into male spaces, and then try to force us to comply with your demands for special treatment, all the while carrying on about "equality." but in reality, you don't want equality. You want the job made easy, while the men do the hard work, and you get the credit!

And now here you all are, shoving the kids off on your husbands, and pulling the "they are his kids too!" Yeah, and they are YOUR kids and YOU are the MOTHERS.

Stop making your husband BABYSIT the children, and Kings, STOP allowing her to do that to you. You tell her HELL NO, refuse, and making her collect the children and take them with her. She shouldn't be doing ONE goddamn thing that she should have to leave the kids behind. If she has an appointment she can bring kids, than she needs to get your mother, her sister or your sister, or a neighbor or friend to watch the children for a FEW hours, and then go and pick them back up, and her appointments where she can't have the kids, need to be few and far between, and YOU need to know exactly what she is doing, and where she is going to be and why. And no, that doesn't mean any "self-care" bullshit. That means...a doctor appointment, dentist. And also, some appointment you attend with her, to make sure everything is how it is supposed to be. When she gets a pap smear , you need to be there, in the room, to listen to all the sexual questions, so you know she isn't messing around on you. She should have no reason to suspect an STD, OR get on birth control (birth control is not allowed in a faithful marriage btw. She should be open and willing to having your children, and she cannot deny you intimacy either King, she has no right to do that unless she is genuinely ill. It is all in scripture, and no it being "uncomfortable" for her, not amused by it, or her not "getting off", is not a legit reason to deny sex to the husband)

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S Bar L Rancher Relationships July 21, 2025 at 7:20 pm 1 1