ldr boyfriend hasnt told me this

almost 5 months of long distance and he has never told me he wants to eat me out. he said it’s just never crossed his mind but that makes me feel even more awful. how hard is it to tell your girlfriend, who gives (when we were close distance) you head everyday and now often texts you that she wants you, that she misses giving you head and making you feel good - how hard is it to think hey maybe she wants to feel wanted too? he’s so sweet, and patient, and we just had a conversation about it and it went well and he listened but i’m temporarily still so fucking sad over it. i’m so anxious i cant sleep. 5 months? and he’s never thought about eating me out or never thought about telling me. i just want to be sexually wanted. i feel like im not enough. he says he likes how skinny i am, and i know he doesn’t like fat girls (it’s a preference for both of us because we are both very active people, i respect it, everyone can have a choice), and he encourages me to get glute gains at the gym (i want to) - but i feel like im just chasing the ideal body for him. doesn’t he realise all i hear is him talking about glute gains but never about him wanting to fuck me unless i initiate it? to eat me out? i’ve sent him sooo messages and paragraphs about all the things i love about his body, from his knuckles to his thighs to his ears, and he’s never even thought to eat me out whilst jerking off or initiate sexting? at one point i had more random men and uber eats drivers compliment me than my own boyfriend (and we’re on the phone from 2-8 hrs a day depending on schedule). i’m so sad. how could you not want to eat your girlfriend out? every man i’ve ever met wanted to eat me out. i’ve felt more wanted by unwanted sexual attention from bosses and coworkers and friends than him in this sense.

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kys Relationships October 23, 2026 at 11:29 pm 0 0