You really need to reflect on your role in this holy shit.

1 - He is and isn't dating her simultaneously, and somehow misled you? What is it? This alone would make me not trust you even without knowing your life story. You're just as bad as the women looking to become a baby mama to trap a guy because SA accusations are fucking serious. My ex tried playing that shit in the same Messenger chat where she was asking to come back to my place on her own volition. Fuck that shit and fuck women like you.

2 - If you're consulting to his hugs what does it matter if they're horny or not? He's not allowed to be a human now?

3 - So he made a shitty joke about the fact you're choosing to talk to him only because you haven't spoken to anyone else? Both are wrong here. He's got a shitty sense of humor, but who does that? You bitch about having sex with him, his conversations with his gf/non-gf, and how he gives hugs.

Maybe he was having a rough day when you decided you were gonna unload your shit on him? I know, it's not possible though because he's not a woman and you sound like a typical professional victim/feminist.

4 - far as the book goes, maybe you have a tendency to not finish the books you read? If that's how you are then i wouldn't want to hear about the books you're "reading" either. I've started reading The Night Watchman by Louisa Erdrich, but given its subject matter it's not a book I'm fit to even bring up typically until I've finished it. Finish the damn book and then bring it up. It's not too much to ask unless you're using reading as a way to get his attention without sex.

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anonymous 2 hours ago

And maybe he likes talking to her more than you because she's actively choosing talking to him instead of treating talking to him as a last resort or alternative for reading a book you probably don't really want to read. People kinda like it when you reach out to them cause you legitimately want to be around them, and not cause you don't have anything else to do.

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anonymous 2 hours ago

i have no idea how you got any of that from what I said, and also please explain how I am the asshole here? I never tried to baby trap him? what are you going on abt? and also sure, he probably does like talking to her more than me, i completely understand that, but you don't know is how often he talks shit about her to me. how often he says he hates her. the point is, he is an asshole and a switch up.

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anonymous 2 hours ago

and no, i don't read very often, but i do in fact finish the books i read and i do in fact read a lot and do far more research on things than he does. also i support any sort of milestone he reaches or any goal he tries to achieve yet when he sees me trying to better myself suddenly he can take slaps at me? oh but god forbid i do the same bc now im an insensitive cunt who never supports him. he's a switch up and bipolar as fuck

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anonymous 2 hours ago

some who fuck their room mates are not lousy lays, butt are convenient

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anonymous 2 hours ago

You can't address any of the points I made, and even draw a strawman on point 1 but you read a lot? I actually implied you'd be the sort who'd cry SA like my ex tried after I dumped her ass and took her to her friend's house. Knew I made the right choice then and there.

Oh, you're reading more than he does research on his shit? I take it back that there is nuance here. You are unequivocally the asshole, and your refusal to reflect on your behavior means this is worthless. I hope the best for your roommate having to be around you. Poor guy is stuck with a professional victim and complete narcissist as a roommate.

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anonymous 2 hours ago

I also explained where I got every point if you read, but you clearly don't, No wonder he doesn't give a fuck hearing about what book you're supposedly reading. I wouldn't either. Your fake support doesn't mean shit either.

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anonymous 1 hour ago

You'll know where the down vote came from too if you read. One of those sorts of people who want to treat others like shit and then wonder why no one wants shit to do with you as a consequence.

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anonymous 1 hour ago

report all to the inquisition

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hats 4 sale: belong 1 hour ago

you literally have no idea who i am yet you're doing everything in your power to compare me to your (obviously deranged) ex girlfriend. this entire post was about how he makes me feel humiliated and insecure around a girl that he tells literally everything to and how i can't talk about he hurts me bc he uses that past as leverage against it. you're only arguement on how im the asshole in this situation is i remind you of your ex. never once in this post did i claim that he assaulted me. the sex we had was consensual. i cut off the relationship bc i didn't know at first how much the other girl meant to him. but let's go down the list okay

1- you compared me to your ex girlfriend. you don't know me, i don't know yall, and yet for some reason my rant about how my roommate made me feel humiliated in front of someone i just want to squash beef with makes me a horrible person? please elaborate on how im the asshole in the situation. i have known and understood i did bad things in the past, taken accountability for them, apologized profusely, and he forgave me.

2-the whole point was i can feel the difference in his touch, and he will either deny or ignore it. i never said that this made me uncomfortable, i never claimed SA, i said that the audacity was wild to do that and still pin me as the bad guy

3- we both dog an each other very often. we take turns roasting, and we both have a very dry, sarcastic, almost rude sense of humor. the issue here is the joke he made about "proving him wrong" felt like i needed to fight for baseline respect, especially since he did it in front if her, again a person i want no bad blood with. we both know how we both joke. i felt that his was step too far.

4- It's not uncommon for people to get excited about their hobbies or what they're doing. I just got this book today and i'm already 4 chapters in. It's called Fort Bragg Cartel by Seth Harp and already the stuff he's talking about is insane. If he didn't want to hear about it, he doesn't have to, like i said, that's completely fine. what he doesn't have to do is pin it out to be a fight for baseline respect. and no, this is not an excuse to get his attention without sex. like i said, im the one who cut it off. and we're still very good and very close friends.

in all honesty, i'm over the situation. i said my piece. and in hindsight, i was exaggerating. i don't hate him. i do very much so love my homeboy. with the mix of disrespect and humiliation i felt like he portrayed, i feel like i had every right to be upset. if you don't think so, fine. but also, you could never understand the extent of our relationship, especially not from a post i made in a fit of rage

also you sound like you call women foods.

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anonymous 1 hour ago