Me and my current partner have been dating for little over two years and he acts like he doesn’t want to spend time with me. All we do is sit at his house and he just plays on his phone. I want to go out and do stuff like a normal couple does. When i find out he’s out drinking with his friends and ask hey when are we going to do something he lashes out at me and basically tells me that im saying he can’t hang out with his friends. I don’t feel seen or prioritized and I just can’t take this shit anymore. The last time I made plans for us to go out for dinner and a movie he took an extra shift at work and didn’t even tell me!!! When I texted him later that night and asked if he forgot about our date he acted like his job was more important than me and I asked to be more open and communicate with me. Instead I got I work two jobs etc…. We both work two jobs and I still find time for you. I’m close to just leaving because why should I be the only one putting forth the effort to make this relationship work
anonymousDating June 07, 2025 at 4:19 pm00
I think it depends on more context. Are you fat?
Like healthy bmi?
So on that metric if you are fat well he probably isnt so into you. But lets consider more to be sure. So you both work 2 jobs. So I do 3 so I'll say its possible he is just guineoy tired, time poor, not necessarily deliberate. Does he still fuck you? Like if you are waiting for marriage is fine but like big dog has to eat... so maybe jes just frustrated sexually but likes you, or maybe you aren't waiting but just not putting out. And maybe hes broke doesn't want to spend all his money on dates. Or maybe you sre nagging him and he needs a break from you but sort of likes you bit not the nagging, maybe hes thinking of dumping you. I mean all these are possibilities but if none apply maybe hes a homosexual or just busy or there is another girl, or nothing anonymous 2 hours ago
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Like healthy bmi?
So on that metric if you are fat well he probably isnt so into you. But lets consider more to be sure. So you both work 2 jobs. So I do 3 so I'll say its possible he is just guineoy tired, time poor, not necessarily deliberate. Does he still fuck you? Like if you are waiting for marriage is fine but like big dog has to eat... so maybe jes just frustrated sexually but likes you, or maybe you aren't waiting but just not putting out. And maybe hes broke doesn't want to spend all his money on dates. Or maybe you sre nagging him and he needs a break from you but sort of likes you bit not the nagging, maybe hes thinking of dumping you. I mean all these are possibilities but if none apply maybe hes a homosexual or just busy or there is another girl, or nothing
anonymous 2 hours ago