am i the jester???

i texted someone 3 days ago, replying a question about something they had just texted me minutes earlier. not a single response.
i texted a different person 5 days ago. no response.
i texted someone else 21 days ago, responding to something they just said. i said i agreed with what they said and added extra insight to the topic we were speaking about. still no response. not even a “yeah”, which would have been completely fine.
someone sent me a video. i responded with a playful question. 27 days. nothing back, and they’re constantly online.
someone added me first, they said i was cool. we talked for a few days. they sent me a picture of their pet cat. i said “aww cute”. 1 month later, no response back, and now i’m blocked.

what is going on??? why is this happening to me?? these are ALL different people, and EVERY message i have says “you: [what i texted]”. i understand not wanting to text first, but i responded to something THEY said and i get no acknowledgment. even when i ask a question, days go by, they’re online, but they never respond. even when they eventually do text me back, they don’t reply to what i said. it’s always “hi! omg it’s been so long!” yeah because i was waiting for you to respond??? i understand not everyone wants to talk. that’s fine. i’m okay with not talking for months. i get it. but when i ask you a QUESTION, or i reply with something that warrants a response, why am i left on the last message?? not even a “yeah”?? not even an emoji reaction??? what am i doing wrong????

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anonymous Friends July 01, 2026 at 1:59 am 1 0