I know lots of people. I have also dated about 100 to 200 people, but not been physical with any. Just coffee/lunch dates. I come from a conservative culture. I believe in love, caring, commitment, companionship over sex.
Unfortunately, I always attract the wrong kind of energy. I understand that all kinds of people will be there. We have all kinds of experiences and I have to move on with the hope that the next experience will be better.
The question is where can I find good people? My parents bring me profiles of that do not give good energy and some are abusive. I am very disappointed from my dates.
I joined some dance classes to meet more people in the past, but it is all women and gay men mostly. At the temple, it is again women cooking in the soup kitchen. Most people my age are already attached.
I do not know where I can find people to date. I do not want to use dating app. The people there lie or are perverts or some bad energy.
SusanDating August 08, 2025 at 11:24 pm11
Susan you are the problem... you are a serial dater who steals free lunched off unsuspecting men seekimg love. Your problem is you refuse to commit to a second date. You assume they are perverts for wanting sex but obviously at some point sdx is completely normal these men just have no idea your expectations and they think if they get sex you are showing commitment so many ard quote sincere but you are judging them despite the fact many women expect these men to put out so they are doing it to please you. So you are the problem here y I u don't have to gave sex but you are refusing to commmit and are are fickle its destroying your relationships before they start. Dr Max 18 hours ago
I pay for my own lunch Susan 13 hours ago
The last poster is correct. You are the problem.. saying you have been on 100 - 200 dates is absolutely insane, and not a single date had a second date? Not a single follow up or call back? At that point the problem here is definitely you.. you need to reevaluate what you want / are looking for. anonymous 12 hours ago
Need to focus on your BJ skills 9 incher 9 hours ago
Oh piss off, I am old enough to be everybody's mom here. Susan 7 hours ago
Susan, you should apply for the TLC show called 'Match Me Abroad'
I'm thinking you would be better matched in a country who shares your values
It can be hard to date in some of these 1st world country's where men are sex crazed and perverted
You deserve the best but make sure you are not discounting people on things that can be changed in a person anonymous 7 hours ago
y'all just leave OP alone
she's dating with intention, something you haters obviously know nothing about
if you want to date for fun, fucks, and free food then go ahead but leave serious people alone anonymous 6 hours ago
7 Rant Comments
Dr Max 18 hours ago
Susan 13 hours ago
anonymous 12 hours ago
9 incher 9 hours ago
Susan 7 hours ago
I'm thinking you would be better matched in a country who shares your values
It can be hard to date in some of these 1st world country's where men are sex crazed and perverted
You deserve the best but make sure you are not discounting people on things that can be changed in a person
anonymous 7 hours ago
she's dating with intention, something you haters obviously know nothing about
if you want to date for fun, fucks, and free food then go ahead but leave serious people alone
anonymous 6 hours ago