Even as a lesbian, I don't get women.

I've been dating this girl for 2 years already and I swear to freaking god I don't get women whatsoever. Whenever she's upset, she gets distant, then gets mad at me for not comforting her. But when I try to comfort her during the time of distance she quite literally pushes me the fuck away. Like hello? How are you going to tell me that I'm not there for you when you reject my help? And when I'm upset, I go to her for her for comfort. Guess what? She gets distant and absolutely REFUSES to be with me when I am upset. I brought this up to her numerous times and she always tells me "oh I thought you needed space." Are you fucking joking?? I go for comfort and you assume I need space? She encourages me to to be clingy, then refuses to hold my hand in public, and when I don't try to hold her hand in public she gets upset. Not to mention, I genuinely feel like she treats me more of a guy than a girl sometimes. I may dress like a guy, but I still act and feel like a girl. She got upset at me for "not holding her all day" even though that's literally all I did that day. And get this, for TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT I've been asking to be held because I've been having the shittiest days. In the end SHE GETS HELD. That same day she got upset at me for "not holding her" I DID NOT GET HELD ONCE. So I don't know what the hell she's on. I'm so fed up because I never know what she really wants and it's so frustrating. And this is something that came out of the blue and only started happening recently (like 3 ish months ago?) so I don't really know what to do. I still love her, but oh my god this is getting irritating.

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anonymous Dating May 24, 2026 at 6:20 am 2 0