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[1289] I can't hold back anymore

I love you but I can't go without sex any longer. It has been 2+ plus. I want to be with you and that's why I married you. We enjoy spending time together. I don't want to be married to anyone else. However, sexually I am starved. I have a gentleman that I have met and grown to know and will be getting the much needed sex from. I cannot starve any longer, I'm sorry.

Posted 3 weeks ago

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  • you better not fucking cheat on her why dont you talk to her dont be an ass if you love her you wont cheat on her
    Posted 3 weeks agoReport
  • I am a her...and I have talked myself to the point of ridiculous.
    Posted 3 weeks agoReport
  • why not tell your husband that you miss the sex and it's lack will hurt your relationship. it's best to be honest.
    Posted 3 weeks agoReport
  • I wish it were that easy. Everyone has the same opinion about how things should be handled but you can't know what a person has been through our what the situation is like until you have lived it yourself.
    Posted 3 weeks agoReport
  • true. but cheating on someone you love (really love) can never be the right thing to do.
    have you thought about the consequences if your husband caught you cheating? and wouldn't he notice the change in your demeanour (unless you're an exceptional actress or he is exceptionally unobservant) ?
    Posted 3 weeks agoReport
  • I know it's not the right thing to do, but I can't resist this time. I have never cheated on anyone, ever. However, he has cheated on me many, many times over the years. Not that I am saying this is a revenge thing. It certainly is not. This is about my physical needs. Observant, he is not at this point but this, again is sex, nothing more.
    Posted 3 weeks agoReport
  • honestly, if he won't put out or whatever, and i know this may seem to be absolutely horrible coming from well, anyone besides a close friend or whomever, but if you have gotten to the point that you feel the need to get it outside your relationship / marriage then chances are hes probably doing it too. that or he has absolutely no sex drive or possibly not into women and the marriage is just a public face for everyone except you two. honestly, who the hell could fault you, sex is for the most part what keeps a relationship going, sure there needs to be the emotional connection and the "friendship" aspect, but really whats making this relationship for either of you different from a friendship is you are not intimate, "you enjoy spending time together" well thats what buddies / pals do, people in a relationship have passion and crave one another.

    but dont cheat, explain that you are unhappy and leave the relationship. its much better that way, sure it hurts in the short term but you will realize that it would make you much better off (if there are kids involved this will make it better for them too as they will grow up believing your dysfunctional relationship is the norm and will treat their future girl/boy friends / spouse the same way and really do you want your kids to live like you are right now??????)
    Posted 1 week agoReport

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